First kisses play a vital role in your relationship or love affair. If you want to have a memorable first kiss with your boyfriend that’s full of sparks and fiery passion. Here are best tips for first kiss with boy friend.
1. Plan for kiss : A first kiss never pops right out of the blue. Even if it seems like an unplanned heat of the moment thing, the setting you create around each other is what gives you the opportunity.
Kiss me and you will see how important I am. Sylvia Plath
The best time to kiss a date or a friend is when you’ve spent quite a while with each other, either on a date or while watching a movie at home because that gives both of you enough time to warm up towards each other. And most importantly, you need to find a way to get some alone time with no one around.
Tips for girl:
- Wear lipstick or chapstick. Skip the sticky lip gloss.
- Keep your breath fresh. Pop a mint beforehand instead of chewing minty gum, which you'll have to find a way to spit out.
- Smell amazing. Before you meet up with your guy, shower off and use scented moisturizer or a few spritzes of perfume.
Tips for boys:
- Shave. Or don't. Most girls prefer a guy with a smooth face, but some like their guy's face rough. Get to know what your girl likes.
- Keep some mints handy. Pop one whenever you feel your breath getting stale.
- Try to be as generally clean as possible. Take a shower, put on some clean clothes, and wear deodorant and if you want, a bit of cologne
2. Build the sexual effect: Your date must want to kiss you back, or at the least, you must know that your date would reciprocate it before you try kissing. Try to sit close to your date. It’s a great way to pass your sexual vibes to them.
Tips for eye contact:
- Lean your head on your guy's shoulder as if you are about to fall asleep.
- Look up at him - if his arm goes around to let you in, go for thekiss.
- If not, or if he doesn't seem to be taking things the same way you are, he might not be ready yet.
And most importantly, speak in a low and soft voice. Speaking softly is a natural turn on. Talk about how wonderful you feel spending time with this person, or talk about how enjoyable the day was.
3. Select location: The location plays a big part in a first kiss. If you play your cards well, a first kiss could lead to a lot more within minutes. I remember the first time I tried kissing a girl in front of her house.
She had her eyes closed and was kissing me passionately and climbing all over me, but I just couldn’t stop craning my neck to see if someone was walking past us.
4. Best way of touch: The way you touch your new lover while trying to cozy up with them makes all the difference in a perfect first kiss. Constantly touch your date on their arms or play with their fingers.
Never ask a woman if you may kiss her. Instead, learn to read body language. Neil Strauss
Let your date feel comfortable with your touch, and even like it.
And once you’re feeling bold enough to go for the kiss, whisper in their ears now and then or play with their hair. Nothing sends the kissing signal out better than that.
5. Using tongue in best way: Don’t use your tongue immediately as soon as you start kissing your date for the first time, but don’t keep it hidden either. Slide your tongue in just a tiny bit until you touch your date’s lips with your tongue.
If they reciprocate, you’re doing it just right. Beyond the first thirty seconds or so, it’s alright to get bold and explore just a little more, very softly, of course!
